• Infiltrated_ad8271@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    You know what else is abuse? Slander and false allegations – these can easily shatter lives completely.

    There’s no point in your dichotomy of choosing to side with the victim or the abuser if you can’t determine who is who. You only know who the accuser and accused are, and if you choose to side with the accuser without good reason, it’s like deciding whether or not to support the abuser by flipping a coin; essentially a witch hunt.

    You and every other abuse denier

    First, you establish who the victim is, and then you unveil my dark denialist secret. Does the crystal ball have customer service in case I’m not satisfied with the divinations?

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      1 year ago

      We’re in agreement on innocent until proven guilty. But that doesn’t remove the public’s opinion. Both sides are being critically looked at, so as a whole I guess we’re doing the right thing in questioning.

      I just find it odd that a good natured sibling would knowingly send a sibling who has asked for money from you in the past a fucking diamond made from their father’s ashes.

      That behavior right there to me starts to paint a pretty specific picture in my minds. I mean come on. Throw out all the allegations and look at just the stuff that’s provable immediately (if she took a pic of the diamond and some texts). She mentioned the abuse to her mom when she was young in a way that was consistent with abuse victims stories and there is not shot in the mother loving world that some little kid is gonna magically shit out those same patterns.

      There, to me, is motive for him to act the way he has. There is evidence that he has purposely lied or withheld info from people (a board of directors nonetheless).

      The dude who wrote the LW post,which was a beautiful example of good neutral writing, was nearly immediately banned on Twitter. Interesting that the same banning techniques that Annie mentions. Could be coincidence, maybe banning on Twitter happens more now with musk in charge - not sure.

      This stuff just piles on and on. It just fits way damn well. He’s still innocent until the law is involved but I have to side with the alleged victim in this case, for this reasoning. I can’t see what facts could possibly come to light to change the specific things I mentioned in the paragraphs above. The sad reality, like I said, is that there’s a fair amount of actual, abusive nut jobs with money and power and they brush these little family affairs under the rug

      Constantly.