When I was a kid, my mom always be holding my hands, especially like when we cross the streets. And I remember at the time, I kinda half disliked it, because I always felt like my movements were being too restrictive, like… I feel like I was too close and I wanted to like move around, look at surroundings, trees, squirrels, etc… She was always afraid I’d get lost, or like… god forbid… get hit by a car.
She also tried to hold my older brother’s hand with her other hand, but he of couse was older and felt embarassed by it so he refused.
I sometimes just run off and go ahead of her because I was bored and felt like she walked too slow, and like I wanted to peek inside a store from the glass window, for example, then we get to a crossing, and she grabs my hand again. Now thinking back, that was actually so wholesome. Like it kinda feels safe and secure being held on to closely.
The memories I remembered of this was around when I was 8-12. Any older than that and I think I just got tired of it and embarassed and I refused lol.
My dad never tried to hold my hands… I guess fathers are just different lol.
Did your parents do that? Did you like it?
I remember my parents holding my hand in the street. I remember there were two ways of docking the hands, and one of them felt wrong. I remember always trying to correct the hold if it was the wrong one. I don’t remember disliking hand holding per se.
Nowadays I hold my kid’s hand when on the street or entering the subway or similar. And if I’m not holding hands, I have mine very near and almost always keep contact with the body ever so slightly. I’m not taking any chance. I guess the circle has closed.