TBF to the guy, I never believed in instant love either for the longest time. Then a couple really shitty things happened, and I was pretty much left with zero emotional anchors. Then attraction/infatuation suddenly went wild, and I was so not ready to cope with it. Maybe that dude is just not there yet for one reason or another. It’s hard to believe in an experience you haven’t had yet.
That’s not how it works
By reading the other comments I’d say you might be wrong
TBF to the guy, I never believed in instant love either for the longest time. Then a couple really shitty things happened, and I was pretty much left with zero emotional anchors. Then attraction/infatuation suddenly went wild, and I was so not ready to cope with it. Maybe that dude is just not there yet for one reason or another. It’s hard to believe in an experience you haven’t had yet.
I believe he’s taking the question literally, as op asking for some universal truth instead of what each one of us finds personally irresistible.
I mean, that seems like a pretty dumb conclusion for him to jump to, but yeah, it could be the case I suppose.
Doesn’t have to be the same attribute for everybody, but most people will find at least one thing universally attractive.
(Or two. Booooobies…)