I asked a job related question the other day on here and got some really helpful answers, so I was hoping you all could give me some further insight into this.

Basically, I have a chronic illness which means I spend most of my time at home and I’m largely disconnected from other people and don’t really have anything in the way of references. I’ve owned my own business for the last several years selling products online, but that business has been declining for awhile and I’m looking into customer service type jobs that I could do from home.

If a company asks for references, how would I work around that?

  • MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world
    452·
    1 year ago

    Tbh…just lie. Base it firmly in reality though and get your story straight. Astroturf the entire reference with people you know, who may or may not have been involved with the reality. Make it believable to the rest of the application. Chances are your references will be passed over entirely anyway while whoever is doing the bare minimum to get through their work day checks over your application.

    This may or may not be good advice. 🤷

      • HousePanther@lemmy.goblackcat.comEnglish
        7·
        1 year ago

        Companies and business owners lie to people and their employees all the time, you have no moral requirement to be honest with them either. Everybody lies to get ahead, it’s fine.

        It’s a shame that it’s come to this, but you’re absolutely right @BettyWhiteInHD@lemmy.world . One does what they must to get by.

      • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.world
        21·
        1 year ago

        Hard disagree from me. The whole corporate culture where I am in aerospace teaches that even small lies or minor unethical behavior can cause profound reputational impacts for the person and the company. I think it’s bad advice.

    • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.world
      5·
      1 year ago

      I’ve been a hiring manager for many years. I rarely check references, and when I do it’s because I’m on the fence about someone. If I checked a reference and had even a hint that it was bogus, it would turn me into a hard no. My bar for ethical behavior is pretty high.

      I think it’s much better advice to just be honest. There’s no harm in providing friends as references as long as you explain it and are up front about it.