• KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    5 months ago

    It’s rude to change a baby’s diaper in public?

    considering you haven’t defined public, and don’t seem like you want to define public, yeah i’m going to say that’s probably rude.

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      5 months ago

      considering you haven’t defined public, and don’t seem like you want to define public, yeah i’m going to say that’s probably rude.

      Why are you lying?

      I literally wrote this:

      How exactly do you think someone changes a diaper at a park?

      Not all parks have restrooms. Not all parks with restrooms have working restrooms. Not everyone drives their car everywhere.

      I suppose next you’ll tell me that people should only take their babies to parks that have working and open restrooms or drive to a park.

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        5 months ago

        park is an incredibly broad definition. Are we talking a national park? Fucking yellowstone? A childrens playground? A public park? A parking lot? All of these are very different from each other, and some of these would make more sense than others.

        in fact, going by the most broad definition “An area of land set aside for public use, as.” this includes places like the DMV, or local government buildings, and my personal favorite. Memorial sites.

        you have got to give me something to work with here if you’re going to sit there and call me stupid.

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          5 months ago

          Why does it matter what kind of park if it doesn’t have a restroom and I didn’t drive? Is a national park without a restroom different from a city park without a restroom if I didn’t drive to it? I don’t even understand what you’re trying to say.

          First you say I should have used a restroom or my car. Then when I explained to you that isn’t always possible suddenly it matters if it’s a national park or a city park? What?

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            5 months ago

            idk maybe because i’m just trying to figure out what the fuck you mean when you’re talking about this shit. I’m trying to give you the benefit of doubt here, and you’re squandering it by yelling at me and saying it literally does not fucking matter.

            For all i know you don’t even live in fucking america. Maybe it’s just me applying incorrect cultural customs, but i wouldn’t know because you keep yelling at me.

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              5 months ago

              I don’t think you are trying to figure out what I mean because I just explained to you what I meant and instead of responding to that, you berated me once again.

              I think what you’re trying to do is find someone to constantly berate to make yourself feel superior and you found someone.

              And don’t worry, I agree, you’re superior. It’s very easy to be superior to me.

              That doesn’t change the fact that sometimes you have no choice but to change a diaper in public. The fact that you don’t have any children might make you realize you don’t understand that, but even though you are definitely better than me (and that is not sarcasm, most people are better than me), I still know more about this specific subject than you do.

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                5 months ago

                I don’t think you are trying to figure out what I mean because I just explained to you what I meant and instead of responding to that, you berated me once again.

                bro i literally asked you what you meant by a park and you said almost verbatim “a fucking park dumbass, what the fuck else do you think i mean”

                I think what you’re trying to do is find someone to constantly berate to make yourself feel superior and you found someone.

                you literally keep responding to me, idk why you’re saying that. You have a family (i assume), clearly im a dumbass that just doesnt understand anything and is trying to piss you off. Then why do you keep responding?

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                  4 months ago

                  Why not? I have nothing better to do. What is your point if not to berate me? You keep responding too. If you weren’t trying to berate me, you shouldn’t have accused me of “committing a crime at worst” because I changed a diaper in public, which, and I have no idea why you’re not aware of this, is never a crime. I don’t think you’re stupid enough not to be aware of that, so I can come to no other conclusion that you just want to feel superior to someone.

                  Feel free to tell me why you’re responding if that isn’t the reason. I doubt you will.

                  Now… I will again explain to you the whole park situation since you’re pretending I didn’t:

                  Why does it matter what kind of park if it doesn’t have a restroom and I didn’t drive? Is a national park without a restroom different from a city park without a restroom if I didn’t drive to it?

                  Any park you don’t drive to and you don’t have a restroom requires changing a diaper in public.

                  You’ve never been in this situation, so you wouldn’t know. And yet you keep acting like you know. The reason I posit, again, is because you want to berate someone you feel superior to.

                  Feel free to explain to me why you’re actually talking to me if not for that reason.

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                    4 months ago

                    i mean originally, this was about taking photos of naked children (which i still think is weird) and then showing them to other people for the explicit purpose of embarrassing them.

                    It was, rather civil, if i recall. You were the one that came out swinging at me, am i not supposed to respond in kind? You don’t play with fire and then get mad when it burns you.

                    You keep responding too.

                    mostly because idk what the fuck you’re trying to say, and i’m trying to figure it out, but you keep fucking cock blocking me here. You literally could’ve said something like “80% of the parents i’ve talked to do the same thing i do” and i would’ve just accepted it. But so far you’ve really only been angry at me for thinking differently than you.

                    i argued that hypothetically it could’ve been a crime, i didn’t accuse you, that’s a complete mischaracterization. And just to be clear: https://ehs.cornell.edu/research-safety/biosafety-biosecurity/biological-safety-manuals-and-other-documents/bars-other/feces-and-urine-human

                    There is literally an entire standard for how you should be handling this shit because it’s considered a biohazard.

                    Bacteria and viruses that cause only mild disease to humans, or are difficult to contract via aerosol in a lab setting, such as hepatitis A, B, and C, some influenza A strains, Human respiratory syncytial virus, Lyme disease, salmonella, mumps, measles, scrapie, dengue fever, and HIV. Routine diagnostic work with clinical specimens can be done safely at Biosafety Level 2, using Biosafety Level 2 practices and procedures. Research work (including co-cultivation, virus replication studies, or manipulations involving concentrated virus) can be done in a BSL-2 (P2) facility, using BSL-3 practices and procedures.

                    Now to be fair, this isn’t exactly a fucking nerve agent, but in the same way that i don’t want to shit on the floor of a public bathroom, it’s definitely something i’d be conscious of if i had a kid.

                    I don’t think you’re stupid enough not to be aware of that, so I can come to no other conclusion that you just want to feel superior to someone.

                    i wasn’t arguing that it was, i was stating that it could theoretically be considered to be a crime based on it’s classifications alone.

                    so you wouldn’t know. And yet you keep acting like you know. The reason I posit, again, is because you want to berate someone you feel superior to.

                    i feel like you’re discounting how brazen you’re being about this.

                    Feel free to explain to me why you’re actually talking to me if not for that reason.

                    likewise, why not. But also, perhaps because i don’t fucking know anything about this topic.