Let’s protect each other by being careful about what we say.
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Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•We all sleep alone soundly; Maybe the key to a happy marriage is separate beds
171·7 months agoThat was TV censorship, not a reflection of real life at the time.
Well is it plugged in?
Still have to watch out for RSI with these, unfortunately. I absolutely loved its predecessor,
but a few years with it left me with an excruciating case of DeQuervain’s tenosynovitis and I’ve been afraid to try it again since.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Technology@lemmy.world•A Prominent OpenAI Investor Appears to Be Suffering a ChatGPT-Related Mental Health Crisis, His Peers SayEnglish
2·7 months agoIn this case, the United States. When healthcare is expensive and hard to access, not everybody gets it.
Syphilis symptoms can be so mild they go unnoticed. When you combine that with risky sexual behavior (hook-up culture, anti-condom bias) and lack of testing due to inadequate medical care, you can wind up with untreated syphilis. If you become homeless, care gets even harder to access.
You get diagnosed at a late stage when treatment is more difficult. They put you on a treatment plan, but followup depends on reliable transportation and the mental effects of the disease have made you paranoid. Now imagine you’re also a member of a minority on which medical experiments have historically been done without consent or notice.
You don’t really trust that those pills are for what you’ve been told at all. So difficulty accessing healthcare, changing clinics as you move around with medical history not always keeping up, distrust of the providers and treatment, and general instability and lack of regular routine all add up to only taking your medication inconsistently.
Result: under-treated syphilis
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Technology@lemmy.world•A Prominent OpenAI Investor Appears to Be Suffering a ChatGPT-Related Mental Health Crisis, His Peers SayEnglish
2·7 months agoCould be. I’ve also seen similar delusions in people with syphilis that went un- or under-treated.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Technology@beehaw.org•Anthropic destroyed millions of print books to build its AI models
1·8 months agoBut buying it did.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does anyone else feel overwhelmed by how the world is going this year?
2·8 months agoMore specifically, singing as the younger generation about trying to live in the world their parents and grandparents seem intent on burning to the ground. And that’s not just my perception. You can hear him tell it in his own words (starting at 1:52).
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the e-reader you would buy if you were in the market?
5·8 months agoPortability is key for me. Others here have recommended the Boox Palma, but for the price difference I’d have to go with Moann’s Inkpalm Plus.
Arr stack integration for e-readers is going to be Readarr linked to a Calibre instance, as described here.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•how can I stop spiralling about my breakup?
12·8 months agoThe real answer here is “time”. You’re grieving a loss, and it takes time for your mind to process that. It mostly isn’t a voluntary process, so the question isn’t only “how do I stop spiraling,” but also “how do I get myself through the time it takes to recover.” A few suggestions:
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Sleep. As much as you can until you enjoy your time awake again. Time you spend asleep is time spent letting your subconscious sort out a changed situation. It’s time spent healing.
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Fast. Fasting releases endorphins starting about day 3. A healthy adult can safely keep up a clear liquids fast for up to 30 days without medical supervision. Don’t do this with just water - clear liquids (see-through juices and broths) will keep up your hydration and important nutrients. The hunger basically goes away after day 3. The endorphins help make the time bearable, and help show joy is still possible.
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Meditate. This will be a hard one, because for best results I’m not going to suggest guided meditation, but rather a mindfulness meditation practice. You can do this on your own, but a meditation group can help you get past some of the misconceptions most Westerners have about meditation (the goal is not to stop thoughts from coming up, realizing you’ve become distracted is success rather than a failure, etc.) If you’re in college, there’s very likely a group on campus that holds sessions at least weekly. If not, look for a Buddhist temple or Shambhala center in your area. Hindu Dhyana and Vipassana are similar. The group will probably meet weekly, but ideally you would make this a daily practice on your own.
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Distract. Whatever takes your attention off the pain is a good thing, even if it isn’t as enjoyable right now as it normally is. Reading, TV, video games, volunteer work, hobbies, learning a new skill. As long as it keeps your attention on something other than the grief.
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Therapy. Again, if your in college, there may be short-term counseling available at no cost. In addition to a non-judgemental space to process out loud, many short-term therapy modalities offer tools for handling grief, sadness, and interrupting thought loops.
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Skydancer@pawb.socialto
World News@lemmy.world•Israel will not stop war until Palestinians displaced from Gaza and Syria partitioned, minister saysEnglish
3·9 months agoIt isn’t a defense at all. You said you didn’t understand. Abused people (or peoples) becoming abusive in turn is a common process, and that phrase is commonly used in such a way that searching on it will reveal many studies of the process, and what has been tried (successfully and unsuccessfully) to short-circuit it.
Understanding is not absolution, though. You can both see how the genocide of Jews led to fears, politics, and colonial interventions that contributed to Israel’s genocide of Palestinians, and also condemn that genocide and those perpetrating it (which I absolutely do). But not understanding the motivations makes any problem easier to effectively resist or solve, as you can use that knowledge to determine where and how to apply pressure and create a lasting rather than a temporary change.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
World News@lemmy.world•Israel will not stop war until Palestinians displaced from Gaza and Syria partitioned, minister saysEnglish
35·9 months agoHurt people hurt people.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Technology@lemmy.world•The FTC cracks down on an AI content detector that promised 98% accuracy but was only right 53% of the time.English
71·10 months agoThe worst part is they may weasel out of it. If the claim was “it detects 98% of AI generated samples” it could do that while having a high false positive rate. I hate this timelime.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you use poweroff or suspend on your Linux systems? Why?
11·10 months agoPower off to get the full security benefits of disk encryption.
Skydancer@pawb.socialto
World News@lemmy.world•EU whacks Apple and Meta with $800 million in antitrust fines. Meta calls its penalty a ‘tariff’English
6·10 months agoThey could have imposed up to €55 billion across the two companies. That doubles for repeat offenders. This was clearly meant as a warning.



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