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Cake day: August 17th, 2023

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  • Sounds like you need to distance yourself from this individual. They are not your friend.

    A normal friendship does not leave you anxious or scared of their reactions no matter what you are up to, however private you want to be or how little time you spend with them. You don’t have to agree on everything or enjoy everything the same way. A friend is someone whos company you enjoy from time to time. But have no obligation to please or requirement to spend time with.

    Posting private information about you on the internet sounds very bad. I’d ask them to refrain from that. Escalate that to relevant authoity if it doesn’t stop.


  • Probably cause kids ridicule you hard if you are wrong or stand out. When you grow up, you might learn to have your own opinions, but you might never unlearn the various defens mechanisms and feelings of ridicule that developed as a result of kids around you scrutinizing you and your opinions.

    They don’t want to hear it cause it is uncomfortable. And they feel like they are loosing respect and getting attacked. They rather sweep it under the rug and forget about it, sometimes not learning from it at all. Humans are also lazy.

    Being wrong gracefully is a learnt skill.