• Wereduck@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    I started using y’all years ago due to its ungenderedness, in part from being in queer spaces. Walking into a room of trans women and enbies and saying “you guys” felt weird.

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      1 year ago

      Being enby, you guys feels weird when I’m included in it.

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        1 year ago

        Being female, yes.

        But I do delight in the awkwardness when they’re called on it and try to backtrack and blush all the way down to their male genitalia.

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            1 year ago

            I guess some people are totally ok with exclusionary language and don’t care about the people they affect with it. Carry on.

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              1 year ago

              I know many female coworkers who also say guys in a genderless fashion, it’s your choice to get upset about something so benign though.