• Baguette@lemm.ee
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        Ehh a bit disingenuous. Apple, samsung, and google took away the headphone jack. You either have to get an old phone (like late 2010s) or buy it from niche companies (sony phones, gaming phones, or some chinese phones)

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        It becomes obnoxious no matter what it is when they’re having a text conversation with someone and it’s going off constantly

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          I’m pretty old but do you know the Woody Woodpecker laugh? I used to work with a girl back before smartphones that had that as her text notification. It was the whole thing which takes like five seconds so sometimes it was just that fucking sound almost non-stop. Here it is, cursed fucking creation.

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      If someone told me to silence my phone in public they would get laughed at. And if you persist I’ll tell you to call the cops, who will then proceed to laugh at you.

      Theatres, yeah, they shouldn’t even vibrate.

      Edit: you’re prefences are noted and ignored. People have been loud in public since there has been public. Get over yourselves.

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        that has not stopped me from calling it out. in my experience, most people seem to be unaware that it bothers other people (or at least they claim to be unaware).

        that said, a decent number of them are unwilling to change their behavior after being told that it does bother people.

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      100%. Public areas need enough clear airspace for emergency announcements as it puts everyone in danger.

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    I used to judge people for going about their daily lives with headphones on (like shopping) as being antisocial. In the last few years, I’ve come to realize they were just quicker to realize how annoying our society is and I’m increasingly likely to join them.

    Recently I went to a mall and visited all the department stores. One of them had a guy playing a piano live and my first thought was “how quaint”. Then, as I sat and waited for my wife to try things on it struck me that I wasn’t hearing horrible music played over speakers - the piano was really nice. Why can’t places go back to playing relaxing music like that (even recorded)?

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    I swear to god, please please please do not blast your fucking music, even if it is rad like ratm, on the walking trail. No one likes it and it makes you look like an asshole and I have to glare at you instead of giving you a friendly wave.

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    People need to get called out for this more.

    I was thinking “I bet back in the day people would have called people out on their shit. That’s why standards were higher”. So I called some guy out on it and he was like “sorry sorry sorry. Okay” and he put his hands up.

    Look cunt you obviously seem to know it’s not right if you acting like that so why you being a knobhead? Just because no one will call you out?

    Edit:corrected my own shite grammar

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      Depends.

      If the guy said sorry like in your story he obviously Canadian.

      You do that in Australia you either get punched or a chicken shit who has his ego so far up his anxiety he makes an effort to talk back, fails and jumps out on the next train stop afraid you’re gonna punch his gizzards. (But hey it was effective non the less)

      If it’s in America you just created another school shooting what with traumatizing a student by asking him to turn down his device and now the world must pay.

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      You got what you wanted and you’re angry about it. YOU are the problem.

      I can only imagine what a dick you probably are all the time. Even by your own telling in this story you sound like you were probably rude or even threatening to a stranger because they made you so mildly uncomfortable.

      Not even really because you were uncomfortable, but because you are roiling mad about cell phone etiquette having declined since “back in the day”. Whatever that means.

      • gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        You got what you wanted and you’re angry about it

        Bend what they said more, let’s see if it breaks! They got mad at the way the person responded revealing they knew they were doing a dick, it’s quite simple

        I can only imagine what a dick you probably are all the time

        Judging from your comment I’m going with: because projection

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          Have you considered that he just forgot? People can not be fully attentive sometimes. He basically said thanks for reminding me and sorry about that. That’s ok in my book

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    I don’t have this problem because whenever I’m in public I have my headphones on. Even if I’m not listening to anything on them they’re still good enough to muffle every other sound blasted by others.

    It’s easier to adapt myself than it is to educate everyone else I guess.

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      This is also a good way to ignore panhandlers and other people approaching you with unsolicited bullshit.

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    Just like drug addicts, these people are addicted to dopamine and they will do anything to get it even if it makes everyone else uncomfortable

    I think TikTok format video players are straight up drugs. It’s a real physical addiction which even has withdrawal symptoms

    They are so appealing, I do avoid them but it’s just sad to watch everyone else become a victim of those

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    Remember when tech companies wanted you talking to your phone for everything out loud. Hey Siri, eat a boiled dick.