• givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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    29 days ago

    The point I was making, was the line between “coexist” and “not murder someone” is a pretty wide gap.

    It’s like saying anyone with a dollar is “rich” everyone else is “poor” and those are the two options.

    Or like if you told me “good morning” and when I reply with “morning” you accuse me of wishing death and destruction on your city because that wouldn’t be good and I left good off.

    Just a ridiculous reduction of language.

    Apparently though, that’s just where the bar is these days. And language doesn’t follow rules, it follows how people use it

    • testfactor@lemmy.world
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      29 days ago

      I mean, my opening point was that “it depends on what you mean by coexist.”

      The “coexist” language has long centered around religious divides, where the intent was literally, “don’t kill each other.”

      Yeah, sure, you could say that you’re “refusing to coexist with your racist cousin this year at Thanksgiving,” but it’s not like he ceases to exist. He still lives down the road. His kids still go to the same school your kids go to. It feels like a complete redefinition of the word “coexist” to me.

      But I’ll agree, language follows usage. I just feel like I’m the one defending the traditional usage of “coexist” and you’re the one who’s slid the definition to something far softer than it has always been intended.

      • lath@lemmy.world
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        28 days ago

        You’re not wrong.

        Interpreting the meaning of these words differently can lead to the ambiguous situation where someone with the intent to do so can paint this as a call for extremism and rise to violence. And “I didn’t mean it like that” doesn’t really cut it in today’s weaponized social media environment.