• crumbguzzler5000@feddit.org
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    3 days ago

    I saw a girl on tiktok say something similar about how after a shit day at work she will look at hinge and be even further upset about the people who have liked her on hinge, as though this is all she deserves in life.

    It sounds extremely depressing out there these days.

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      3 days ago

      That sounds very entitled of her. She can choose whom to like back. And if she isn’t happy with the options she has, she can go swipe on her own.

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      3 days ago

      Let’s be honest, most men that use dating apps are those looking for hookups. So if you’re a woman looking for tge same then go ahead but you’re not gonna find a long term partner there unless if you’re one of the lucky few

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        3 days ago

        I don’t know a lot of people that use dating apps but in my anecdotal experience all the male friends I know that use them are actually looking for a good long-term relationship. But you’re probably right that they are a minority.

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        None of the men I know that are using the apps are looking for hookups. There are many such men, but there are lots of people looking for other stuff as well.